10 Principles Of Manhood: What You Should Know before Age 30

 

The concept of manhood is something that has been debated and discussed for centuries. From the ancient Stoics to modern-day thinkers, the question of what it means to be a man has been a topic of great interest. But what is manhood? What does it mean to be a man? Is it a set of traits, a state of mind, or something more abstract?

Is a man a cigar-smoking gym head with millions of dollars in his account? Yes! Or maybe not.

Let us dig into it and explore 10 principles of manhood that will help you understand the essence of being a man. These principles are non-negotiable and in no particular order. Let these serve  as a guide for you to understand the fundamental principles that characterize manhood. Any man who holds himself to these standards is bound to win in life.

1. Self-Reliance: A man should be self-reliant and able to take care of himself and those around him. You are responsible for your own well-being, both emotionally and financially, and you should be able to make decisions and take action. 

2. Courage: A man must have the courage to face his fears and overcome obstacles. This means being willing to take risks and stand up for what you believe in, even in the face of adversity. 

3. Gratitude: Gratitude is wisdom for a liberated mind. True happiness begins when a man can be grateful for the little things in life. Be thankful for the blessings in your life and do not take things for granted. A heart of gratitude will sing the songs of victory in the battle of life.

4. Respect: A man should always treat others with respect, regardless of their social status, gender, race, or beliefs. Be polite and courteous. Treat others the way you would like to be treated; after all, it is the golden rule. The lowest of men are those that treat people like shit, especially those they have authority over.

5. Humility: “Pride goes before a fall.” Be humble as a man, in spite of your status, wealth, intellect, or whatever advantage you hold. Humility will cause you to constantly be a student of life, learning, growing, and appreciating the substance of life. You should be open-minded and not let pride get in the way of learning new things. 

6. Honor: A man should always strive to be a person of honor, which means living a life of integrity and keeping his promises. In a world of so few honorable men, strive to be one. Honor is simply the morality of superior men. – Henry Louis Mencken.

7. Leadership: A true man should be a leader, not just in his personal life but also in his home, community, and profession. You should be able to guide and inspire others and make difficult decisions when necessary. 

8. Empathy: A man should have the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It is true that women excel at this trait more, but a man should not be lacking in empathy. You should be able to put yourself in other people's shoes and have a sense of compassion and understanding.

9. Discipline: Be a disciplined man in all aspects of your life. From your physical fitness to your mental well-being. You must have the self-control to make difficult choices and stick to your commitments, even when they're hard—especially when they're hard. All proven winners are disciplined.

10. Integrity: A man should always strive to be a person of integrity, which means being true to your word and standing up for what is right, even when it's difficult. Be an honest man who does not cross his brothers to gain an upper hand.

Manhood is a complex and nuanced concept, and these principles are not meant to be a one-size-fits-all definition. However, by understanding and embracing these principles, you can gain a better understanding of what it means to be a man and strive to become the best version of yourself.